The Guo Jin that inspect the Supreme Being brings new theatrical work " ID elite " emerald stage heat is sowed. This drama subject matter is novel, it is wireless first teleplay that with entering a country clerical place is a problem, at the same time large still space involves the subject matter that marries with outback daughter on Hong Kong male north: Hero Guo advance is installed even if married Jia Ni of outback girl Yao, be delivered of a son, nevertheless the wife arrives after harbor, guo Jin An won't concern between processing family, turn a feel vexed into the husband. This drama caused the discussion to a series of topics accordingly: Why do in last few years Hong Kong man and outback girl marry does scale increase? Be harbor daughter " did phenomenal occurrence bring up Hong Kong inland two ground affection? And the netizen is right " ID elite " the discussion of drama, more be marriage of pair of ground of this kind of different analyse, exceeded teleplay itself far.
Two ground circumstances arises an account: "Harbor daughter " bring up two ground active couplet marriage
The scene in drama: Dredge outstanding (Guo Jin An is acted the role of) it is person of sterling Hong Kong, but do not have as female as harbor love, zhang Saimin of book city salesman was known in Shenzhen 6 years ago (Yao Jiani is acted the role of) , 2 people hit it off perfectly, marry and absurd next son homes hope.
Of marriage of two ground couplet increasing see, hong Kong had 18 thousand men to go to China 2011 outback wive, than 7.18 times increasing considerably 10 years ago. Why does man of increasing Hong Kong want the wive on north?
Netease netizen " clumsy wriggles " say: "Main because Hong Kong woman is average intellectual level is higher, have many comparing the man is taller, the demand is then relative also taller, jiashangyi halfway princess " harbor daughter " indulge in wilful persecution, hong Kong man feels hard accost, then hard to avoid of wive of the home on north makes a trend. Additional, because inland and Hong Kong are more and more shirt-sleeve, hong Kong man arrives outback opportunity is more, they arrive it is industrial and outback investment, easy to do bring into contact with more opposite sexes.
Two ground affection problem 1: Does different ground rush about pat procrastinate be willing?
The scene in drama: Because Zhang Saimin wants the one-way proof of Hong Kong of platoon period go off with, inside the time that files 5 years, she all the time He Junjie lives apart two ground. The biggest question that two people await in those days is problem of two ground distance, back and forth at every turn 9 hours of above. They also are passed " a calorie two " phone card communicates at any time, want to maintain 56 years as a result of this kind of day nevertheless, the certificate after marrying approves meeting giving ability to stop disjunctive years, a few people does such life have to you can be borne again?
Jia Ni of Yao of the actor in drama raises action: I think love is consummate, do not have minute of district to restrict, marry what to to close two ground problem, concern two people to whether be treated sincerely only, this ability is love and marriage is essential.
Nevertheless also the netizen holds different opinion: Different ground is patted procrastinate to work hard really, I do not value two ground affection. Because live apart two ground, feeling turns weak it is the thing that often produces. The friend is an animated example beside me, she and a harbor male pat procrastinate 4 years, recently as a result of long-term be apart two ground, the man turns with feeling weak put forward to part company. The message comes out stage of that elder brother does not part company in them time of half an year has married parturient!
Two ground affection problem 2: Outback bride gets used to Hong Kong life not easily
The scene in drama: Sai Min applies for to go to Hong Kong to one-way card eventually, but everything what she abandoned inland arrives harbor, did not seek proper job, and the life that gets used to Hong Kong fast rhythm hard. Although before she ever had lived jointly together with husband's family 3 months also do not have occurrence problem, but after coming to Hong Kong settle, met relatively troublesome mother-in-law and elder brother's wife, skirmish is ceaseless. The Zhang Saimin life in husband's family is unpleasant.
Outback new immigrant comes after harbor, get used to Hong Kong life not easily, already was best-know thing. Incommensurate nevertheless also should learn to suit, this is the fact that does not dispute, one female netizen suggests: "Environmental unlike Hong Kong of inland, need gets used to just entered Hong Kong so for some time, want to learn to handle the relation between wife and mother neatly, because him in one day is bitten by the snake,not be afraid of careless rope with respect to 10 years. Because him in one day is bitten by the snake,not be afraid of careless rope with respect to 10 years..
Two ground affection problem 3: Outback wife and family opposite, the husband is recreant be afraid of getting into trouble
The scene in drama: Sai Min helps to the in grandpa variety shop after harbor, but Li Wen of its elder brother's wife is holding him is sister-in-law identity, add Sai Minsheng the gender is gentle, li Wen everywhere create difficulties for sb she. Once once, li Wen sold neighbour a bottle of expiring sauce, kill the have loose bowels after getting a family to eat, complain to shop. Li Wenjing gives Sai Min this thing impute like that, but dredge outstanding for make concessions to avoid trouble, not only the wife that did not help oneself, call Sai Min tolerance instead. Sai Min cannot help really, speak the truth finally, bring about sisters-in-law opposite.
New emigrant wife and opposite of husband home family, how should be the husband faced? Wh whoever is whose blame, marital the back of hand is the flesh, the palm also is the flesh, the one party that where to help is not. Common man practice is make concessions to avoid trouble, like the Fang Junjie in drama, but is the result useful?
According to the investigation on a net, the netizen of 80% thinks Fang Junjie way is wrong: "A Jie is done too feel vexed, did not communicate with wife at all because of him, make wife patient blindly. Be like the person that Sai Min gets along so easily, actually A Jie knows to the attitude should demonstrate with wife after the truth, hope she takes the interests of the whole into account to be not found out again, at the same time good sign of again good word amuses wife, I believe Sai Min is met certainly of know a thing or two. Basically be to serve as marital A Jie to won't be handled.
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